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Opening Yourself Up After a Toxic Relationship
Leaving a toxic relationship can be one of the most challenging yet liberating experiences in life. The aftermath often leaves you feeling vulnerable, cauti…
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Embracing What Isn’t: A Guide for Men
In life, we often find ourselves grappling with the notion of acceptance. For many men, the struggle lies not in accepting what is, but in coming to terms w…
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Understanding Women’s Change of Life: A Guide for Women and Men
Perimenopause and menopause are natural stages in a woman’s life, marking significant hormonal changes that can affect both physical and emotional well-bein…
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The Impact of Women’s Change of Life on Relationships
Navigating relationships can be complex at any stage of life, but many women find themselves facing unique challenges during perimenopause. This transitiona…
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Change of Life: The Impact on Relationships
Change of Life known as perimenopause and menopause are natural stages in a woman’s life, yet they often come with a host of physical and emotional challeng…
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The Downside of Trusting Implicitly
In a world where trust is often considered a valuable currency, the act of placing implicit trust in others can be both a noble gesture and a risky endeavou…
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The Power of Giving Trust
Trust is the cornerstone of any successful relationship, whether it be personal or professional. It is a fragile yet essential element that forms the founda…
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The Downside of Control
In our daily lives, we often seek control over various aspects of our existence. From managing our schedules to making important decisions, control gives us…
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When a Victim of Cheating Becomes the Perpetrator
Infidelity is a devastating betrayal that can shatter the foundation of trust in any relationship. When someone experiences the pain of being cheated on, it…
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The Art of Allowing Things to Evolve
In a world that often feels chaotic and unpredictable, it can be tempting to try to control every aspect of our lives. We plan meticulously, set goals, and …
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Tired and Worn Out? The Power of Rest and Rejuvenation
In a society that often glorifies hustle culture and constant productivity, the concept of lethargy is often viewed in a negative light. Lethargy, defined a…
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Tips for Overcoming Mental and Physical Sluggishness
Feeling lethargic, unmotivated, and sluggish is a common experience that many people face from time to time. Whether it’s due to physical exhaustion, mental…
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Stay Angry and Unhappy – It’s Your Choice
In life, we are faced with a myriad of emotions every day. Happiness, anger, sadness, excitement – the list goes on. While some emotions bring positivity an…
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Harnessing Jealousy for Growth in Relationships
Jealousy is a complex and often misunderstood emotion that can have a significant impact on relationships. While it is often viewed in a negative light, jea…
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Using Jealousy for Positive Growth and Motivation
Jealousy, often viewed as a negative and destructive emotion, can actually be a powerful force for good when channelled in the right way. While jealousy is …
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Harnessing the Power of Anger for Good
Anger is often seen as a negative and destructive emotion, associated with conflict, aggression and harm. However, when channelled and harnessed in the righ…
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Insights, Tips, and Tools to Overcome Anger
Anger is a natural and valid emotion, but when left unchecked, it can have detrimental effects on our well-being and relationships. Learning how to manage a…
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Understanding the Impacts of Feeling and Projecting Anger
Anger is a powerful emotion that can have far-reaching effects on both individuals and society as a whole. When we feel and project anger, it can create a r…
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Overcoming the Green-Eyed Monster
Jealousy is a common yet complex emotion that can have a significant impact on our relationships, careers, and overall well-being. While it is natural to ex…
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Navigating the Green-Eyed Monster
Jealousy is often termed the “green-eyed monster”. It is a complex concoction of insecurity, fear, and resentment that can rear its ugly head in various asp…
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Men, Challenges, and the Stigma of Silence
In a society that encourages open communication and emotional expression, there exists a pervasive stereotype that suggests men should always be strong, sto…
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The Manipulative Nature of Using Self-Harm Threats
Self-harm is a serious and complex issue that affects many individuals around the world. It is a coping mechanism used by some to deal with emotional pain o…
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Gaslighting
Gaslighting is a form of psychological manipulation that can be difficult to detect but can have serious effects on a person’s mental health and well-being….
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Keeping Your Powder Dry in Toxic Relationships: The Art of Not Poking the Bear
In the realm of relationships, there are times when it is necessary to exercise caution and restraint, especially when dealing with toxic dynamics. Just lik…
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Maximising the potential of being taken seriously when reporting Domestic Violence
Men are often not taken as seriously when they report incidents of domestic violence. In many cases, the lack of belief or appropriate response from authori…
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Domestic Violence – Coercive Control
Coercive control is a form of domestic abuse characterised by patterns of manipulative, controlling behaviours that are used to dominate, intimidate, and ma…
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Domestic Violence – The Denial Phase
As societal awareness of domestic violence continues to grow, it is essential to recognise that men can also be victims of abuse. When discussing the cycle …
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Domestic Violence – The Honeymoon Phase
When we think of domestic violence, the image that often comes to mind is that of a woman as the victim and a man as the perpetrator. However, it is crucial…
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Domestic Violence – The Tension Building Phase
Domestic violence is a pervasive issue that affects individuals of all genders, yet the experiences of male victims are often overlooked or downplayed in ou…
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Domestic Violence – The Abuse Phase
In the realm of domestic violence, the cycle of violence is a pattern that often repeats itself in abusive relationships. This cycle typically consists of f…
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Shifting Perspectives: Finding Growth After a Relationship Ends
Breaking up is never easy. Whether it was a mutual decision or one that caught you by surprise, the end of a relationship can leave you feeling lost, hurt, …
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Navigating Life After a Relationship Ends
When a relationship comes to an end, it can feel like the ground beneath you has shifted. The person who was once a significant part of your life is now gon…
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Breaking the Silence: Reporting Domestic Violence as a Man in Australia
Domestic violence is a serious issue that can affect anyone, regardless of gender. While the majority of reported cases involve women as victims, it is impo…
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Navigating a Relationship with a Bunny Boiler: Steps to Take When Red Flags Appear
Finding yourself in a relationship with a bunny boiler can be a tricky situation to navigate. Once you have identified the signs and realised that her behav…
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Signs You May Be in a Relationship with a Bunny Boiler
Today, we are diving into a topic that is not often talked about but is crucial for anyone to be aware of – signs that you may be in a relationship with a b…
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The Cornerstones of Good Mental Health: Sleep, Diet and Exercise
In the fast-paced world we live in today, taking care of our mental health is more important than ever. While seeking professional help is crucial in managi…
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Managing Conflict in Your Relationship While Working FIFO
Are you or your partner working FIFO (Fly-In-Fly-Out) and finding it challenging to navigate conflict in your relationship? Balancing work and personal life…
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Managing Life While Your Partner Works FIFO: A Guide to Thriving Alone
Living with a partner who works in a FIFO (fly-in-fly-out) job can be challenging. The alternating cycle of being together and apart can take its toll on bo…
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Managing FIFO Work Away From Family: Balancing Work and Home Life
Working FIFO (Fly-In Fly-Out) can be a challenging experience, especially when it means spending extended periods away from your family. This work arrangeme…
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Balancing FIFO Work and Relationships: Tips for Success
In the fast-paced world we live in today, many individuals find themselves in the unique situation of working fly-in-fly-out [FIFO] jobs. These positions of…
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Good People Make Mistakes Too
In a world that often demands perfection and places individuals on pedestals, it is easy to forget that even the most virtuous and kind-hearted among us are…
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The Deceptive Facade: When Bad People Appear Good
In life, we often encounter individuals who possess the uncanny ability to mask their true intentions behind a veneer of goodness. These individuals, often …
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The Importance of Supporting Male Employees Facing Family Separation
Family separation is a tough experience that can impact anyone, irrespective of gender. While there is often a focus on supporting women during times of fam…
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The Importance of Supporting Men During Family Separation
Family separation can be a challenging and emotionally taxing experience for both men and women. While there is often a significant focus on supporting wome…
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When Welfare Checks are Used as Weapons
Mental health welfare checks are intended to provide support and assistance to individuals who may be experiencing a mental health crisis. However, there is…
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Mental Health Welfare Checks: Balancing Concerns and Care
Mental health welfare checks, while intended to provide essential support and intervention for individuals in distress, can sometimes be a double-edged swor…
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Welfare Checks: When should I check on someone?
Performing a welfare check on someone is a crucial step in ensuring the safety and well-being of individuals who may be in distress or facing potential harm…
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When Conducting a Welfare Check is Inappropriate
Welfare checks are an essential tool used by authorities to ensure the safety and well-being of individuals in vulnerable situations. While the intent behin…
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Understanding Welfare Checks
A welfare check refers to a visit made by authorities or social services to check on the well-being and safety of an individual. This is typically triggered…
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Walking on Eggshells in Relationships: Enabling or Navigating Conflict?
Relationships are complex and multifaceted, often requiring a delicate balance between harmony and healthy communication. It is common for individuals to fi…
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Finding Your Way When You Feel Lost
Feeling lost is an experience that most, if not all, of us go through at some point in our lives. It is a sensation that can leave us adrift in a sea of unc…
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You don’t need to have all the answers!
In a world that often expects men to have everything figured out, it is crucial to remember that uncertainty is a natural part of life. So, let us explore w…
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Stalking: Why do they do it?
Stalking is a serious and concerning behaviour that can have devastating effects on individuals who are targeted. The motivations behind why stalkers engage…
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Recognising Early Signs of Stalking in a New Relationship
Entering into a new relationship can be an exciting and hopeful time in one’s life. However, it is important to remain vigilant and attentive to potential r…
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Recognising Stalking Behaviours in Women: A Closer Look
Stalking is a serious and often misunderstood issue that can have detrimental effects on the victim’s mental and emotional well-being. While it is commonly …
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The Invisible Connection – Did you know you are being stalked?
Stalking is a serious and often frightening behaviour that can have significant impacts on the mental and emotional wellbeing of the victim. It is important…
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How to Recognise if You Are Being Stalked: Signs to Watch Out For
Stalking is a serious and distressing issue that can have a significant impact on a person’s sense of safety and well-being. It can happen to anyone, regard…
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Personal Growth Can Lead to Relationship Breakdowns
In the journey of life, we often hear phrases like “know thyself” and “personal growth is key to happiness.” While these sentiments hold undeniable truth, t…
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Exploring the Fine Line Between Humour and Abuse
Humour has long been a tool used by many to cope with difficult situations, alleviate stress, and connect with others. When used appropriately, humour can b…
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Every Relationship Ends
When we enter into a romantic relationship, we often do so with hopes of a lasting connection and shared future. However, the truth is that relationships ar…
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The Power of Accepting What Is: Embracing Change and Finding Inner Peace
In a world that constantly preaches the virtues of ambition, drive, and relentless pursuit of improvement, the idea of accepting things as they are might so…
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Embracing the Chaos: Why Making Changes to Your Life Can Wait
In a world that constantly bombards us with messages about self-improvement, productivity hacks, and the pursuit of success, it may seem counterintuitive to…
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The Beauty of Not Knowing Whether to Stay or Go in Relationships
In the realm of relationships, the age-old dilemma of whether to stay or go can be a source of endless turmoil and indecision. We are often bombarded with a…
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Addressing Abuse Through Humour: Coping Mechanism or Masking Pain
Humour has long been recognised as a coping mechanism for dealing with difficult and painful experiences. In some cases, individuals who have experienced ab…
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The Power of Pets
Pets have a unique ability to bring joy, comfort, and companionship into our lives. Whether you’re a cat person, a dog lover, or an enthusiast of more exoti…
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Self-Awareness – Is It Worth It?
Self-awareness is a powerful concept that can lead to profound personal growth and fulfillment. It involves having a clear understanding of oneself, includi…
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Frenemies: Is Your Friendship Toxic?
In the intricate web of human relationships, there exists a phenomenon known as “frenemies” – individuals who outwardly portray themselves as friends but ha…
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Do We All Respond to Stress the Same?
Stress is a natural part of life, and how we respond to it can vary greatly from person to person. While the “fight or flight” response is a well-known reac…
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Are You Stressed or Anxious?
Stress and anxiety are two common experiences that many people face in their daily lives. While they are often used interchangeably, they are distinct emoti…
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Coercive Control: A Gender-Neutral Perspective
Coercive control is a pattern of behaviour that seeks to dominate, intimidate, and manipulate another person through various tactics such as isolation, thre…
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The Introvert Experience of Alone Time and Solitude
In a world that often celebrates extroversion and constant social interaction, it can be easy for an introvert to feel overwhelmed and misunderstood. While …
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The Extrovert Experience of Alone Time and Solitude
In a world that often glorifies extroversion, it is easy to overlook the value of alone time. For many extroverts, the idea of being alone can be daunting a…
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The Destructive Power of Neediness: A Wake-Up Call
In the realm of relationships, neediness is like a poison that slowly erodes the foundation of love and respect. This toxic trait, often associated with ins…
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Lonely or Needy?
We often find ourselves grappling with complex emotions and societal expectations that can sometimes be difficult to navigate. Two emotions that are commonl…
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Accepting Loneliness
In a world that often glorifies constant connection and social validation, the idea of being alone can be daunting. Society often places an expectation on i…
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Coping with Guilt After a Relationship Breakdown
Going through a relationship breakdown can be one of the most challenging experiences in life. It can leave you feeling a wide range of emotions, including …
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Coping with Bitterness After a Relationship Breakdown
Going through a relationship breakdown can be one of the most challenging and emotionally draining experiences one can face in life. When a once-loving rela…
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Co-Parenting Is About Your Children Not You
Co-parenting after a separation or divorce can be challenging even under the best circumstances. When the relationship between co-parents becomes toxic, the…
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It’s OK to Co-Parent Differently
Co-parenting after a separation or divorce can be a challenging journey, filled with emotional ups and downs. When navigating this process, it is essential …
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Co-Parenting with a Toxic Ex
Co-parenting can be challenging even under the best circumstances, but when you are dealing with a toxic ex-partner, the situation can feel overwhelming. If…
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Am I Weak if I’m Vulnerable?
In a world that often praises strength, resilience, and independence, vulnerability is a quality that is often overlooked or even seen as a weakness, especi…
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Ensuring Your Family Has Your Back
We often pride ourselves on being strong, independent, and self-reliant individuals. However, there are times in life when we all need a helping hand, a sho…
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The Value of True Friendship: Why You Need Someone Who Calls Bullshit
In the journey of life, having true friends by your side is an invaluable gift. These are the people who stand by you through thick and thin, celebrate your…
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The Importance of Recognising Disrespect in Relationships
One of the most crucial steps is learning to recognise and address disrespect. It is a topic that often gets overlooked or misunderstood, but its impact can…
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The Key to a Strong Relationship: The Importance of Respect
In the intricate dance of relationships, one fundamental element stands out as a cornerstone for success: respect. Respect is not just a word; it is a power…
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It Is OK to Have a Shit Day – That’s Life
Life is a rollercoaster ride filled with twists and turns, ups and downs, and unexpected loops that can leave us feeling exhilarated or completely shaken. W…
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When Family Doesn’t Have Your Back
We are often taught to be strong, independent, and capable of handling whatever life throws our way. But what happens when the people we expect to be our st…
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Keeping Your Cool: How to Handle Unexpected Encounters with an Ex
We have all been there – you are going about your day, minding your own business, when suddenly, out of the blue, your ex pops up on your radar. It could be…
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Coping with Family Separation: Common Triggers and Strategies for Men
Family separation can be a profoundly challenging experience, triggering a range of complex emotions and mental health struggles. Whether it is due to divor…
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Overcoming Obstacles to Living a Full Life
We often find ourselves facing barriers that hinder our ability to live life to the fullest. These obstacles can come in many forms, from societal expectati…
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Financial Planning During Separation
Amidst the upheaval of going through a separation it is crucial to pay attention to your financial well-being. As you navigate the complexities of separatio…
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Before Running to a Lawyer Consider This
Going through a separation is a deeply emotional experience, and it is important to approach it with self-awareness and consideration for your psychological…
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Emotional and Psychological Adjustment After Separation
The dissolution of a relationship can be a deeply challenging experience, and the emotional and psychological impact of separation can be particularly diffi…
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Redefining Responsibilities and Moving Forward as a Separated Man
Transitioning from a relationship to a separated man can be a challenging and confusing process. The shift in roles and responsibilities can be overwhelming…
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Rediscovering Your Identity: Navigating Life as a Separated Man
The end of a relationship is undoubtedly one of the most challenging times a man can face. It often brings with it a profound sense of loss and can leave yo…
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Cutting Through the Bullshit of Valentine’s Day
Valentine’s Day – a day that stirs up a whirlwind of emotions, opinions, and debates. For many, this occasion can feel like a double-edged sword, with its o…
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Making Every Day Valentine’s Day
As Valentine’s Day approaches, it is easy to get caught up in the commercialized version of romance that bombards us from every angle. While there is nothin…
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The Bullshit of Valentine’s Day
As Valentine’s Day approaches, many men find themselves navigating a delicate balance between their own beliefs and values and those of their partner. For s…
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Feeling Trapped in a Relationship? Remember, You Have Choices
As men, we often find ourselves in situations where we feel confined or trapped in a relationship. Whether it is due to emotional strain, a lack of communic…
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The Power of Embracing Apprehension
As men, we are often taught to be strong, stoic, and fearless. We are encouraged to push aside feelings of apprehension and forge ahead, but what if we told…
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Breaking the Silence: Men as Victims of Family Violence
When we think of family violence, the common perception is that women are the primary victims. However, it is important to recognise that men can also be vi…
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The Power of Saying No: Setting Boundaries
As men, we often feel pressured to be constantly available and accommodating. Whether it is at work, in our relationships, or within our social circles, the…
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The Modern Man Cave: A Space for Retreat, Recreation, and Reflection
In today’s fast-paced world, finding a space to unwind and recharge is essential for everyone. For many men, the “man cave” has become the ultimate sanctuar…
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The Power of Action: Why Our Deeds Define Us
In a world filled with words and thoughts, it is easy to get lost in the realm of intentions and promises. We often find ourselves surrounded by individuals…
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Redirecting Excessive Care For Others Towards Ourselves
In our society, there is an inherent value placed on caring for others. We are taught from a young age to be kind, considerate, and helpful to those around …
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Finding Peace in Times of Irritability
In today’s fast-paced world, it is easy to become overwhelmed by the constant demands and pressures of everyday life. Whether it is work deadlines, personal…
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Embracing Embarrassment
In the modern world, men are often encouraged to conceal their vulnerability and project an image of unwavering strength and confidence. However, the truth …
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Embracing Boredom
We’ve all experienced those moments when boredom strikes, and the usual routine just isn’t cutting it. Instead of succumbing to mindless scrolling or lettin…
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Finding Inner Peace in a Chaotic World Can be Loud and Active
Life can be tough! Sometimes it feels like the world is throwing everything it has at you, and all you want to do is find some peace and quiet. Finding that…
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When Walking Away Works
When someone hurls insults at you, it’s best to walk away. In such a situation, there simply is not enough mutual respect or goodwill to foster a positive r…
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What Are You Avoiding When Your Life Is Unbalanced?
In the hustle and bustle of life, it is easy for men to fall into the trap of overdoing, believing that it is essential for success and providing for their …
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Understanding and Addressing Anger: Unpacking Emotions from a Different Perspective
Men are often taught to suppress their emotions, especially those that are considered vulnerable or “weak” by societal standards. Anger, however, is an emot…
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Loss and Grief Around Ending of Family Relationships
The ending or changing of dynamic in a family relationship can cause emotional pain. Experiencing a loss can be a profoundly challenging and emotional ti…
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Money Problems in Relationships
Money problems can be a significant source of stress and conflict in relationships. Here are some common issues related to money in relationships and some s…
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Division of Household Tasks in Relationships
The division of household tasks in relationships is an important aspect of maintaining a healthy and equitable partnership. While there is no one-size-fits-…
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Values and Beliefs in Relationships
It is important to embrace the similarities and respect the differences in relationships. Values and beliefs can vary widely from person to person, and t…
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Unfulfilled Expectations in Relationships
Unfulfilled expectations can be a significant source of frustration, disappointment, and conflict. When one or both partners feel that their needs, desires,…
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Effective Communication
Effective communication is more than sharing information. Effective communication is the bedrock of strong and healthy relationships. It is more than jus…
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Relationship Challenges: A Guide for Men
All relationships have their rocky patches no matter how connected you feel to your partner. Just because you are feeling disconnected or in conflict does n…
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Navigating the Challenges of Family Separation: A Guide for Men
Family separation, whether due to divorce, work commitments, or other circumstances, can be an emotionally taxing experience, particularly for men who might…
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Domestic Violence by Women Against Men: Breaking the Silence
Domestic violence (DV) is a pervasive issue that affects individuals regardless of their gender, race, or socioeconomic status. While the majority of DV cas…
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